Mapping the relationship matrix that supports us in living our soul's purpose, we can build soulful, trustworthy relationships. Who can hold us in the process of making mistakes and learning from them? Who can honour our powerful feelings, while they affirm and anchor us in belonging to what we care about? With reassurance and support from trustworthy friends, mentors, and communities of practice, we can ground in the values we want to embody, even in a crisis. We can better take courageous action to repair, when we have done harm, and know when to engage in or avoid conflict. We can live guided by what we value, and be cherished and supported in our vulnerabilities.